Wednesday, April 28, 2010
5 Signs She's Not Ready To Commit
Most women want to be with a man who is ready for commitment; however, there are some women among out there who are dating guys and have no intention of committing. While these nice guys take them out, treat them well and show nothing but devotion and kindness, they get treated like a revolving door and are subjected to nothing but mind games, inconsistency and drama in return. Women are best judged by their actions, so here are some of the top signs that the woman you're dating is not ready to commit to you.
1. She spends more time with her girlfriends than you
If you find that the woman you are dating seems to enjoy hanging out with her girlfriends way more than she enjoys hanging out with you and you can’t get her to come out for some one-on-one time, there’s obviously something wrong.
2. She doesn't return your phone calls
Don’t assume that she lost your number. If she won't return your calls, it is a very clear sign that she has a low interest in you. Maybe her story about a busy schedule is true, but a woman is going to find a way to return a call with a guy she’s serious about. If she can't return a simple phone call, it should be clear that you are not a priority.
3. She won't share her feelings
Women love to talk about their feelings; but, when asked how she feels about you and the relationship, if she can't quite seem to answer the question, there is a big problem. If she gives off mixed signals and never gives you the opportunity to get close, she’s probably happy with the distance between you. These vague and non-committal women usually tell you things like "I think you’re okay" and "Why don’t we just see how things go." Statements like these mean that she’s handing you what’s called false hope. It’s a complete waste of time and energy and women like this will not be with you for the long haul.
4. She constantly talks about her past relationships
She talks so often about how all of the multiple men she has dated have mistreated her, you may start to wonder whether she is racking up a list of your offenses so she can tell her next boyfriend about them. If you are dating a woman who cannot seem to realize that she has met a brand new guy who deserves a chance, she is not even remotely ready to be in a serious relationship with you.
5. She is only interested in what you can do for her
If she sees you as a meal ticket or, even worse, as a rent check, a down payment for a car, here’s the truth: your girlfriend is a gold-digger. She is very interested in what you have; however, she is not interested in you.
Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on the 5 Signs You're a Commitment-Phobe.