Wednesday, August 17, 2011

5 Ways to Improve Your Attractiveness

Is there any hope for you becoming more attractive to the opposite sex if you don't have extremely good looks, lots of money or a fancy car? Yes, if you're willing to make a couple of changes in your lifestyle and put in a little effort to show that you are a well-rounded person who is worth getting to know. While there are a hundred things you can do to make yourself a better person, here are our top 5 ways to become a more attractive guy.

1. Get in shape

Although your body isn’t the only thing that's going to get you the girl, it will surely help. Your body deserves to be treated correctly, so eat properly and begin a regimen of cardio with weight-bearing exercises that engage your major muscle groups to make your muscles look ultra-toned.

2. Take care of your teeth

Not taking care of your teeth can drastically change your appearance and cause you to lose you more women than you’ll ever know. All women find a healthy set of teeth and gums attractive, so brush your teeth regularly with whitening toothpaste, floss every night, get your teeth cleaned regularly by a dentist and invest in home whitening kits.

3. Improve your wardrobe

You’d be surprised what a couple of new threads will do for your confidence and your attractiveness with the ladies. So get some new outfits, particularly more body-conscious clothing that skims your body (but isn't skin-tight) and gives the impression of broader shoulders and a slimmer torso.

4. Improve your scent

The scent of a man is really important to women, and finding the right cologne to complement your lifestyle can enhance your presence in a room or group and also cause women to think of you as that great-smelling guy they have to have. Choose a base scent you feel comfortable wearing that also accentuates your own unique style and personality--just make sure that you don't use too much.

5. Improve your social skills

It doesn't matter what kind of individual you are, you could always learn new skills that would make you more attractive and your character much more appealing. Start by being friendlier with others, smiling more and improving your eye contact with people. Furthermore, by taking more chances, showing up at more social functions and becoming more cultural, you'll be able to build and share connections and relationships with people, and women will be attracted to your personality and will want to be seduced by you.

Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on the Top 10: Things Women Find Unattractive

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

8 Signs She's Lost Interest in You

Has your girlfriend suddenly started acting differently around you? Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can't seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she's been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.

In our article the 5 Signs She's Not Into You, we examined signs of a woman's low interest level in the early dating stages. But what about when you've been together for a while? If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned.

1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you

All women are entitled to a girl's night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.

2. She avoids public affection with you

If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.

3. She's lost interest in sex (with you)

If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you're rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.

4. She starts fights with you

If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.

5. She shows interest in other guys

If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she's shopping around for another man.

6. She's put distance between you

A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don't see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong.Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.

7. She's no longer affectionate toward you

If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you're always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.

8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”

If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.

Top 10: Signs You're Too Nice

From the time we were infants, our parents told us to “be nice.” For the most part, it’s good advice; however, in a relationship, some men become too considerate, too helpful and too kind in an effort to seemingly align their lives with a woman’s wishes. Don't be one of them.

Women appreciate a gentleman, but they don't respect pushovers and they don't feel attraction for "nice" guys who always kiss up to them. Here are 10 signs that you’re too nice.

1. You give too many compliments
Women love compliments, but if you make too many or too big a compliment, most women won't believe you and will wonder what you are trying to sell them.

2. You're too understanding
Constantly trying to understand a woman's point of view as she walks all over you isn't being tolerant; it's being spineless and allowing yourself to be a doormat. Yes, being unfailingly understanding and considerate towards a woman may keep you in a relationship (for a short time) and prevent arguments and clashes with her, but it won't gain her respect and admiration.


3. You're always available
Always being available makes women think that you don't have a life of your own and actually lessens your own attractiveness, making you far less desirable.

4. You're always buying her gifts

Even though the thought is nice, the concept of constantly showering a woman with gifts will begin to lose its meaning and eventually she will become less thrilled and even annoyed receiving them.

5. You agree with everything she says

Guys that are too nice agree with everything a woman says, thinking that's what she wants. In reality, women want someone who is going to stimulate their minds and challenge them.

6. You let her choose everything

Not all of us like to make decisions, and deferring to your woman is OK sometimes; however, letting her call all the shots about EVERYTHING and EVERYWHERE you go is not good. Women are not turned on by men they can completely control and you do your relationship a good bit of damage when you show yourself to be indecisive.

7. You always pay for everything

With the traditional etiquette of a gentleman, guys have always been taught that paying a woman's way is the right thing to do; however, paying for stuff shouldn't always be left to one person. You don't have to split everything down the middle, but there does come a time in a relationship when the financial load should be shared.


8. You're too accommodating
Being helpful is one thing, but if you get in the habit of doing every little thing for her whenever she wants, she'll come to expect having her own butler and chauffeur around on a regular basis -- not a boyfriend. If running an errand is convenient for you, help her out by all means. But don't be afraid to put your foot down either.

9. You're too respectful
in the bedroom
While every woman appreciates a gentleman, there are certain arenas in which you can be too respectful, particularly in the bedroom. Yes women deserve respect and they want you to be delicate with them for the most part; however, in the bedroom, women appreciate spontaneity, assertiveness and a sense of adventure and passion.

10. You're too interested in her

Becoming more interested in a woman's life than your own will ultimately make her bored with you. Yes, you want to take an interest in her career, her hobbies, etc...but it's a bad sign if you abandon all of your aspirations, neglect your interests and bail on your friends just so you can concentrate all of your energy on her.

Looking for more ways to avoid turning women off? Check out our article on the 5 Signs You're Being Needy.