Wednesday, September 30, 2009
5 Signs She's Not Into You
So you've been chasing that certain woman for while. She flirts with other men in front of you and rarely calls you, but you continue to hope for the one day when you'll get out of the FRIENDZONE and she'll see the light and fall into your arms. But after some time passes, how do you know when to continue your pursuit and to walk away with your dignity intact? If she displays the signs listed below, you can be pretty certain that she's not into you.
1. She always cancels plans with you
It is certainly fair to occasionally cancel plans for a legitimate reason, but if she bails consistently, it not only shows that she's not interested, but that she holds little respect for you at all and that you're just the guy she looks too just in case she doesn't have anything better to do. If she does this, move on and do it quickly.
2. Her "perfect man" is nothing like you
She tells you she wants a bad boy who is exciting and dangerous. You are a sensitive guy who listens and has manners and class. Take this as a kind hint that you are not her perfect man. Most likely, though, you are in the "friend zone" which means that you are just like one of her girlfriends that she shares her thoughts with and nothing further. Although she may eventually fall in love with that sensitive guy--it won't be with you.
3. She tries to hook you up with other women
For whatever reason, she doesn't see you as relationship material for her. If she's actually trying to hook you up with other women, the message should be clear: She definitely doesn't want you for herself.
4. She avoids eye contact and physical proximity
Don't think you can disregard a woman's feelings of attraction and gradually sell her with your inner beauty. If she constantly avoids making eye contact with you and keeps you at arm's length at all times, take it as a sign that you're not her type. If a woman is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you and make eye contact.
5. She tells you she's not ready for a relationship
When a woman says this to you, what she really means is that she does not want to be in a relationship with you! Women often use this one when they feel cornered by someone they are not interested in. For a woman, saying this to a man leaves no room for a counterargument.