Sunday, March 15, 2009
So you and your woman have reached a certain point in your relationship that allows you to get physical. The first sexual encounters in a new relationship can be both scary and exciting at the same time.
Between the two of you, you have the spark, the chemistry, the passion that it takes to build a good relationship. So how do you and your partner take your relationship to the next level?
Communication is one of the most important tools in relationship intimacy and should take place before the two of you are between the sheets. The two of you should have an open discussion about your intimate past. Things like the number of sexual encounters and sexual relationships you've both had and any risks for sexually-transmitted diseases should be discussed. Being honest can break down many barriers in your relationship.
Be patient and get to know your partner's body and physical features. You also need to tell your partner what kind of intimate wear you like to see and the very intimate pleasures you like. For example, If you like rose petals or to see her in skimpy thongs or you like foreplay, sensual massage techniques or certain love making positions, tell your partner. If your partner is really into you, then they won't force you to do anything that you don't like or not ready for. Remember, no means no.
Once your relationship has reached the intimate level, keeping your woman satisfied in bed is very important. Don't just lie there and let her do all of the work as doing this tells your partner that you want things to be rushed or that you're not really that into her for any reason other than sexual pleasure., e.g. "booty call".
Using these tips can help make that first intimate experience memorable.