Saturday, April 11, 2009
5 Ways To Increase Her Desire For You
So you've finally found a woman who really gets your juices flowing and gets you hot at the mere sight of her, but how do you increase her desire for you and keep her out of the arms of other men who may have better relationship skills than you do? Here are 5 ways to increase her desire to be with you.
1. Maintain a confident attitude
As you're trying to keep the attraction flowing in your relationship, remember to maintain a confident attitude. Women love confidence in a man and displaying a confident self-image will boost her attraction to you.
2. Make her feel special
Women love to be showered with attention and need to feel wanted. So if you'd like her to stay around for a while, make sure she knows that she still turns you on by charming her and giving her genuine compliments. Make her feel special and you'll keep her desire burning hot for you.
3. Look your best
When you first start dating a woman, you try very hard to impress her; however, after a while, many men began feeling too comfortable and begin slacking. Women are obsessed with clothing and their own appearance and will quickly switch off their sex drive if you start looking sloppy, so keep yourself up, don't get complacent about your hygiene and appearance.
4. Be a challenge to her
Your attitude should be that you're the catch, and you're doing her a favor by allowing her into your life. Being a challenge to women is a good thing, so learn to make yourself less available and more unpredictable. Keep contact with other single women and make lots of female friends. If she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time, her desire will be increased and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away.
5. Don't smother her
Last but not least, don't allow yourself to become a clingy, approval-seeking doormat who calls her numerous times a day and constantly showers her with gifts. If you smother her and act insecure, she could start feeling trapped and leave. Remember, insecurity is not attractive to women at all.