What happens when you are stuck in a bad relationship with a woman and you're on the verge of breaking up with her, but she's willing to whatever it takes to keep you in her life and make sure you take care of her --even getting pregnant on purpose?
Everybody knows that unless a woman decides to artificially inseminate herself, conceiving a child takes is a two person act and if you decide to have unprotected sex with a woman, then you should be man enough to accept the consequences. However, there are some desperate women out there who feel that their relationship is so bad that they need to trap the man and get pregnant just so he'll stay with her and hopefully marry her.
These women insist on having unprotected sex and usually use lines like "I can't feel it with the condom on--just take it off" and attempt to use guilt trips on you, i.e., "If you love me, why do you need a condom?" These women will intentionally stop using their birth control without the man knowing and will even go as far as tampering with condoms prior to intercourse, i.e., putting a pin through their boyfriend's condom package without the guy ever suspecting it.
These manipulative women who perform these awful acts of immaturity have tunnel vision for their lives and in a way feel that they have to "fight for their man." This type of woman wants the man she's with to be with her for the rest of her life only because she doesn't think it's possible to find someone else to love her. They think that being with a man is the key to their happiness, suffer with low self esteem, think very poorly of themselves and feel that "If you have a baby with him, he is yours forever."
The main reason why these women are willing to get pregnant on purpose in order to keep a man is how they were raised thinking about life, men, and marriage. These women are raised to be gold diggers and to depend on men as much as possible--not in how to take care of and support themselves. Many of them have been taught that when they get pregnant by a guy, he is suppose to take care of her and the baby and that even if he goes off and dates another woman, he would eventually always have to come back to her. They fail to realize that a child is not going to fix it as it is well-known that a great percentage of men who become daddies don't marry their "Baby's Mamas."
Ensure that you utilize your own protection and keep it on your person until it's time to utilize it. Avoid accepting condoms from a woman (especially a desperate one) and never, ever take her word that she's on birth control. A woman who insists on having unprotected sex prior to marriage is usually one to avoid.
If you don't want to continue the relationship with her now, think about how you'll always have a bond with her for the rest of her life by sharing a child together. If you want to avoid the fighting, drama and chaos that comes with dealing with a baby's mama, it would be wise to end all sexual relations with a woman that you're ready to break up with any way and move on while you still can without any attachments!
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