How to Spot a Gold Digger

When starting a relationship, sometimes it takes days, weeks or even months before you discover a woman's true intentions. It's difficult to spot a gold digger from the first encounter because they can hide their true selves much deeper than their outer skin. Here are some ways to spot a gold digger.

The female gold digger is usually an attractive woman who has a large pool of potential mates to choose from. Gold digger women tend to talk a lot and usually give themselves away during the first few minutes of a date. Most gold diggers dress like high-class call girls, but talk like college professors.

Gold diggers are very manipulative women who mainly prey on men that have nice, exotic cars and plenty of income to spend on them and support their lifestyle. They focus conversations on your assets, such as the house you live in, the car you drive or the business you own. Gold diggers pretend to be interested in you by asking questions about your occupation so they can discover your job title and measure your earnings' potential.

The life of a gold digger is usually spent trying to get all they can out of a man so they don't have to work themselves. The average gold digger doesn't seem to have any income and cannot or will not hold a job. When it comes time to pick up the check for a dinner, a movie or just about anything else the two of you are undertaking-- she is nowhere to be found. No matter how much you spend, it's never enough and they always want more. Other signs of a gold digger are traits like having a lack sincerity, honesty and responsibility.

Gold diggers normally come on strong and leave no doubt that they are interested in your financial status and possessions and they like to move relationships forward as quickly possible. They create the illusion that the two of you have true love. These desperate women want to get to committed relationship or marriage positions as soon as possible and after they have spent all of your money and are ready to move on to the next victim, they will definitely try to have a child for post-divorce purposes. They don't look back or have any doubts about the emotional trap they set for the person in question.

Although you may be looking for the opportunity to boost your ego by dating extremely beautiful and high maintenance women, you need to listen to your intuition. Does your woman have a steady job? Is she up to her neck in debt and/or refuses to answer direct questions about money? If something is telling you that things aren't right and that she may be a gold digger, she probably is. Don't sacrifice happiness to be with a beautiful gold digger, or you may end up crying the rest of your life.