Saturday, February 27, 2010
The Wingman Approach
A concept fully appreciated by any guy who has ever gone on a date is generally referred to as "The Wingman". There are few roles more important than that of the wingman, and in case you are not fully aware of what the role of a wingman is, he is essentially the guy who will go with you to the bar and distract your target's unattractive friends and keep them busy so that you can engage in conversation with the more attractive woman without interruption.
When choosing a good wingman, keep in mind that he he should be less attractive than you. He must also be prepared for any number of pickup scenarios and must have numerous approach techniques at his disposal. He must be the person who will always have your back and the one guy you can trust to get you out of tough situations and help you ease into the situation of meeting hot women.
Your wingman should bring up your male confidence with the ladies, let you be in the spotlight and do whatever he can to make you look good. A good wingman should also be ready to distract other guys that could be approaching, giving you time to talk one-on-one with the hottie.
He can provide you with insights on things like your body language and other things that maybe you didn't know you were doing around women, and can also remove you from certain situations when rejection with certain women your flirting with is inevitable.
Although your wingman should be able to swallow his pride and step up to the unattractive friend to run interference, remember that it's only fair that you repay the favor, which likely means playing wingman for him the next time the both of you go out.